Thursday, September 29, 2005
Talking with my trusted teacher friend, learned that the principal is out of town til Monday. K said he did mention it in brief when we set the apt to meet with him and G, that it was for Monday because he woudl be gone. I must really be out of it not to have caught that.
Seeing as how I had told T that if G did anything to hurt or humilate him, he could get up and go straight to the principals office (he said T could, definately) and now he isnt there, we arent keeping him in school for reading the rest of this week. Its only two days. Monday at the meeting, it will be explained why he wasnt in class and how things need to be expidited rapidly.
See now I would have thought that with G knowing about the upcoming meeting on Monday, she would have been on her best behaviour with my child. I figured she would have kept her mouth shut, maybe ignored him, but I wouldnt have expected her to humilate him verbally in front of the class yet again. How convienent. If you know now that you cant touch, do something so maybe his peers will ridicule him or question him about later. Hurt him mentally and emotionally instead. This woman has no soul. I swear she doesnt.
Since she had the gall to do this while the principal was still in the building, we didnt want to find out what she would do to T while she knew he was gone. T is in school right now, wrapping up lunch. he has cursive for 15 mins after lunch, and then when the children go to reading at 1, he is to collect his homework that he will miss later in the day from his homeroom teacher and just come home at 1. We will repeat this again tomorrow.
I at least have some peace over this decision. My heart isnt weary and sad, for I know that for today and tomorrow, T is safe and has a break from all of this. Monday we face this woman head to head. The gloves are off. She has a lot of explaining to do, and frankly
nothing she has to say can fix what she has done or make it better.
2 Comments:
Have you considered mentioning the fact you could actually press charges against her for emotional and other forms of abuse against your child?
I would not hesitate to use that trump card if necessary.
No teacher has a right to abuse your child, physically grab or shake them, or verbally ridicule and shame a child.
This is all completely unacceptable behaviour from a professional school teacher.
The woman needs out of the field if she can't handle it.
Oh yes, we are taking things to social services and the shcool board. The principal is a dear, so we arent just forging ahead and surprising him with this. We have a meeting with him and this teacher on Monday monring, and we are letting him know (in front of her) that we are taking this a step further and filing a complaint.
As far as a lawyer and suing, I dont know if that will be neccessary unless the principal surprises me and pulls out support, doesnt move Tyler out of the classroom, and sides completely and predominately with the teacher. I do understand he has to protect her to some degree too, and needs to find his neutrality, but there needs to be some sort of balance to please both the parents and protect the child.
Im pretty positive we can get him moved out of her class. however, I cant in my right mind just let it sit. I have a history with all those other kids in her classroom. They are like my babies too. And what happenes when T leaves that room and she has to find another to torment? I cant with a clear concious let that happen, so we are taking it beyond, outside of the school and letting social servies know. This way, if another parent has an issue and they forge forth, there is a trail for them to follow...
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